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Game De-Evolution - Good & Bad

Over the last few podcasts that Tariq has dropped he has spoken about the game devolving due to the landscape changing. I agree things have changed a lot but damn, are they like that, my dudes? Tariq says that nowadays men should just resort to "tricking" or "johning" as a way to circumvent the drama; I have to humbly disagree with this notion.
I'd like to think of myself as a "game purest" of sorts in that I think regardless of what the landscape does, tricking is never the answer. I feel as though tricking is admission of two cardinal sins in the game:
1. Lack of Discipline - If you can’t control your dick to the degree that you've to pay for some ass, then you have problems well beyond being a John.
2. Giving up on the GAME - If you are negotiating "sex for pay", then you have waved the proverbial white flag on your mouthpiece (in my opinion). You are saying; "Here, just take this money, let me fuck you, and all is square." 
No …

A Woman's 1st Simp

The first Simp, a woman, will meet in her lifetime will likely be her father.
It's OK that fathers spoil their daughters. It's OK that they pander. They are parents. What's not OK is to try & say that a father will set the tone for how his daughter should be treated. Moreover, that she should expect the best out of men without her being taught how to be the very best woman for the man she wants to date.
You set your daughters up for failure in the dating world when you don't teach them how to deal with certain guys & when you don't teach them how to be the type of woman men will want to date.
To teach them to expect the best, and men should treat them like princesses, is to raise them as entitled, spoiled brats.
They expect a lot out of men, but don't want to work up to that same expectation that men will have for them.
Women (with simps for fathers) never see how a thoroughbred type of father acts & behaves & treats his wife because their fathers ha…

Using soft words for making hard politics–the Bismarck-style

(I took a lot of liberties in fine-tuning this post because the original poster speaks English as a second language, so he had several grammatical issues. However, I kept the core post.)

“A hard surface and a soft core,” is a saying most of us have already heard of. However, how would it be if we turned the tables and professed “a soft surface and a hard core” instead? That would be a way to come closer to the style of great diplomats and statesmen, guys that have become very rare in our times. One of those great personalities of history, which perfected this style, was the Prussian chancellor--and later chancellor of bigger Germany--Prince Otto von Bismarck.

The iron chancellor

I will admit it right at the beginning: Bismarck has not always been a diplomatic genius. For a big part of his life he had to fight against himself, his impulses, and tame his tongue. This was a tremendous task that took an enormous amount of energy from him. He had a very hot-blooded nature and was notorious in…

King Flex’s 7 Levels of Disrespect

1. Combativeness - passive aggressive form of disrespecting you. You say one thing, and she says the opposite for the sake of being disagreeable.

2. Slick Comments - dissing; "I want to start my own business" she sarcastically says, "Yeah, right." This is a subtle diss.

3. Insults - calling you names during conversations or out in public.

4. Public Embarrassment - When they are comfortable at home disrespecting you, then they do it publicly. They holler at you in front of strangers.

5. Slander – After dissing you privately and publicly, she begins dissing you when you are not around to friends and family. Alternatively, she may start putting your business in the streets.

6. Infidelity - She disrespects you behind your back and at home and sees that she can get away with it, so, now, she has sex with another dude.

7. Set You Up to Get Robbed, Killed, or Assaulted - blatant contempt. Moreover, you become a cuckold. Your life becomes endangered.

Fellas, don't let it get …

Self-Mastery: Stop Trying to be a "Real Man."

"A real man takes care of his kids and knows how to treat a woman with respect." 
"A real woman knows how to cook and knows how to treat her man." 

You've heard these and similar terms before. They make up the vast majority of public debates and conversations about Black relationships between Black men and Black women, whether it's online, in churches, hanging out, etc. As frequently as this occurs and as passionate people become, most of these debates are mythological, just like arguing over who is a better player between LeBron James and Michael Jordan. 

The most important part of the game, and life in general, is self-mastery. Knowing and controlling who you are, so you can turn yourself into the man, or even woman you want to be. The argument over "real" this and that, means that there is some external force that validates you as a real man or real woman, and until it does, you aren't real. If you believe this and apply it, your game suffers,…

The Dating Game

It’s easier for women to get dick than it is for men to get pussy. However, it’s easier for men to get sex from the women we desire than it is for women because, although they do the choosing, we do the approaching, so if we approach who we want we can have sex with who we want to. Women get approached all of the time but it’s not by the men who they want to approach them, so oftentimes it takes them a while to meet a guy who they’re really interested in. Also, men can have sex with multiple women and not get attached. Most women become somewhat attached to any man that they have sex with (which is why a lot of them try to limit the amount of guys who they have sex with). –TheKing_65 (October 30, 2012)

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Acute to Chronic Simp-itis Infection

Simp-itis Infection Symptoms

If you have simp-itis--either acute or chronic--signs and symptoms may include the following but not limited to:

•Patronization of Females
•Frequent agreeing with females to gain favor from them 
•Slight to Severe Loneliness - (causing extreme thirst for women including attention-whoring)
•Extreme Fatigue - From over worrying about getting a female (including the approval of women)
•Excessive Complimenting Towards Females - Even when it’s NOT deserved 
•Unnecessary Singing and Crying - To express how you feel about a female 
•Reckless Emotional Behavior - After a woman gives you the "Cookie", you immediately catch FEELINGS OF LOVE (Stalker Type)
•Emotional Love Letters: Written emotional letters to females with drawn tears and sad faces included

More Severe Signs Include:

•The frequent playing and listening to music artists such as; Kenny Lattimore, Brian McKnight, Keith Sweat, Tevin Campbell, and Frank Ocean
•Taking hot milk bubble baths with chamomile, van…

“Trying is nothing–achieving is everything!”

(I took a lot of liberties in fine-tuning this post because the original poster speaks English as a second language, so he had several grammatical issues. However, I kept the core post. -Derrick Mills)

“I’ll try," “I am about to do something new,” “I do my best”, and “I work really hard” are statements that can all be summed up in the same category. They have in common that they leave the door open, like a path for refuge, in case you are not successful in pursuing your goals. To try something you only need some motivation, and such is not very “expensive”. To be successful on the other hand--you need much more. You need an inner strength that comes from your true self--from the core of your being that cannot be acquired very easily, or even be bought somewhere.

Motivation is overestimated–perseverance is what counts

In general, motivation as a decisive factor for success is exaggerated. In particular, in the realm of self-help, there is much talk about it--probably because it is “c…

Life's Cruel Little Joke.

Life is a motherfucker. Moreover, also the ultimate revenge in some cases. While in high school and college, guys will pursue the hottest chicks on campus. Usually, these are the well-endowed or overdeveloped hotties. At this point, it can be argued that women have the power. Attractive women in their late teens and early 20's have this uncanny ability to get guys to buy them things--and sometimes even get them to pay their bills--simply because men find them attractive. Young guys will get discouraged and sometimes have a jaded view of women--but guys you have to understand--life will play a cruel joke on these women, years down the road.
As with meat, dairy products, and other perishable goods women have a limited "shelf life." Hell, they even have a "best when used date." Women are at their prime between the ages of 18-35. It's this 17-year stretch that women can use their looks to their advantage. However, the tide slowly starts to turn when she hits 25.…

The Misconceptions and Backwards Morals Belonging to Most Females

Last night was an interesting evening.
A brawd I had charged to the game came by my spot dry-begging for weed-money.
Now--as soon as we began conversing--she asked me for weed-money. I told her I didn't have it because my money stays in the bank. I told her I can teach her how to make some cash if she were to get down with me; I'd give her advice for a fee.
It’s funny that this brawd had no issues begging me for money--but when I told her I knew how she could make paper--she didn't want anything to do with it. Suddenly, she had morals, saying she'd just get a job.
A little bit about shawty:
She's short, has a decent shape, her biscuits were fluffy, and she has the complexion I prefer black women to have—she’s milk-chocolate.
When I realized that she didn't want to make money, she automatically went into jump-off status. She looked uncomfortable as we were talking, so I told her that if she didn't want to be here, I wasn't going to make her do anything she did…

If She Isn't Choosing…

Then she’s losing. Adopt this philosophy and watch life change in front of your eyes. –Don Da Dapper, Courtesy of UPA (December 2, 2015)

It could be that she's in a space where she doesn't want a relationship or she could just get that maybe you aren't going to commit to her? –Lena B., Courtesy of UPA (December 2, 2015)

Does it matter? Sisters complain about street harassment, etc., and players come at you smooth, no overt pressure and move on if she says “no”. "No" means “no” to us. That should be celebrated. 
Anyway, it doesn't matter. She said “no”. Are you saying pursue it? Which goes against this street harassment thing (even though I don't subscribe to street corner macking) but extending it to the bar, a restaurant, etc. 
It’s a simple thing. She says no, you move on. Women should love this way IF what some are saying is what they actually believe. -Arsenal, Courtesy of UPA (December 2, 2015)

Um, no. I’m not saying pursue it if she says “no”. I'm gi…

The Importance of Having Balance Within the Game

Although I harp on tricks, squares, and lames—all of them are necessary to bring balance to the game. 
Now, to give credence to my argument, I’m going to share with you a little of my experience in Japan. Now, while I was in Japan, there was an overabundance of playboys, players, and macks within the area. Now, this may sound like a good thing—and to a certain degree it was—but eventually the women grew tired of us dealing with them--while we were there--before we processed out to another base, due to us not marrying them. There simply wasn’t enough squares to settle down and get married; this caused a lot of the women to shy away from many of the Black playboys--inhabiting the area—for the White squares. Women’s ultimate goal is to find a guy to settle down with--and with the overabundance of playboys, players and macks--they merely saw that goal being a pipe dream. (Now, this was only a problem for the playboys—we players and macks weren’t bothered by this.) 

Next, is my story about b…

Females Have No Excuse to be Broke

(This post is relevant as long as a woman hasn’t had any unforeseen catastrophes.)

Now, I know this some of you females and misguided males may think I sound misogynistic, but I’m going to explain my title. When you think about all of the added perks that women get just for being females, women have no excuse to be broke. If a woman has a child with a man and they decide to split, the court system will award her the child and will sentence the man to pay child support, and if he cannot afford to pay his child support then he will be condemned to jail--only to get out and to continue to be forced to pay child support—although now it will be harder for him to make his payments. Furthermore, child support is often granted as a covert lifestyle support fee—due to the amount guys often get assessed.
Next, if a woman gets married and the couple decides to split, then that woman will receive alimony, so she will be paid for her time spent in a marriage. Furthermore, we have some states that en…