Worldly Game

As I reflect on my 43 years of life. I think back to how easily things could have been different. I was born to a mother who suffered from mental illness and a father who took his frustration out on the world by him beating my sister and me, but this isn't a sad Donald Goines' tale or a Robert Beck's tale where I am surrounded by villains of the ghetto. I am here to tell you no matter how bad things get, fight! When she leaves! When you lose your job, when a loved one passes, fight! I was diagnosed, denied, and denigrated. I chose to fight because I refused to believe what people thought about me or what people told me.  I sought after knowledge, I embraced self-discipline. I used self-control as a comforting blanket. It secured me, it matured me. To all my brothers going through hard times, learn to condition your mind and tell yourself "This is part of the process." Adopt self-will. Learn the methods of Sun Tzu, learn The Art of War , learn how to use energy...

Journaling is like the martial arts; it’s a discipline. To get the mental, emotional, and insightful breakthroughs that you are looking for, one has to be disciplined and consistent. You can’t journal 1 week, and then take the next 3 weeks off; being consistent is the key. Journaling works because it causes you to be introspective. When you journal, you are really asking yourself questions that you wouldn’t usually ask yourself; this is called “self-discovery.” You are learning new things about yourself. The benefits of journaling are amazing. One benefit a person obtains through journaling is total recall. When you start journaling, and you are consistent with it, you will get into the habit of recalling your day as you journal. When you do this on a regular, your memory will become sharper.  Another benefit of journaling is your handwriting will improve. Handwriting is 1/3 of literacy. These days, people don’t physically write anymore, and neither do they remember. There w...

(I took a lot of liberties in fine-tuning this post because the original poster speaks English as a second language, so he had several grammatical issues. However, I kept the core post. -Derrick Mills) In most countries, one is an adult as soon as one has reached the age of 18. Right? As far as it is about the legal age of being considered adult, which means to be entirely responsible and of legal capacity that’s true. However, on the other side, we all know that there are people whose conduct of behavior when they are 20, 30, 50 or even older, has not reached the state of someone that age, as one would reasonably expect. So, we see when we talk about “maturity” we are dealing with different aspects which must be distinguished very clearly. Different sorts of maturity There are three different sorts of maturity in human beings, which are usually reached at various times during our development: 1. Physical maturity 2. Mental maturity 3. Emotional/psychological maturity Phys...

Black men are usually targeted by White Supremacist and their ass-kissing minions for every little thing.  One thing that sticks out to me is when some of these White Supremacists and their ass-kissing army say that Black men suffer from "hyper-masculinity.”  If you want to know what the term "hyper-masculinity" means, here's an excerpt, I took from definitions.net Hyper-masculinity is a psychological term for the exaggeration of stereotypical male behavior, such as an emphasis on physical strength, aggression, and sexuality. This term can be pejorative, though it is also used when examining the behavior dispassionately. One of the first studies of hyper-masculinity was conducted by Donald L. Mosher and Mark Sirkin in 1984. Mosher and Sirkin have operationally defined hyper-masculinity or the "macho personality" as consisting of the following three variables: a "callous sexual attitudes toward women," b "the belief that violence is manl...

As you know, I work in the insurance industry. So in other words, I am an entrepreneur. However, outside of my clients, I do still have bosses. Furthermore, my bosses offer me advice to the best of their knowledge—and based off of their biases. Now, regardless of what one does, we live in America, and America is still racist at its core. Therefore, regardless of what degree of freedom one attains through his/her profession, racist prejudices will still be incorporated. Now, with the aforementioned, I have been advised that I needed to dress up my image a bit more. I need to take the pen out of my shirt, and I need to stop wearing skullcaps because it doesn’t look professional. Now, if I were a game-goofy clown--that believes everything his/her white counterpart tells him/her--, then I’d accept this advice with no questions asked. However, I’m not. I understand that some people are racists and will create any excuse to voice their disdain for me. So with that in mind, I do not take...

Alright Natural Freedom, I have a question for you. This is a situation that in the past I have had happen to me, and recently a friend had this happen to him as well. My question is why do some women take your info, not hit you up, but when they are around you, attempt to flirt with you again like they did before you passed them your info? The reason why I asked this question is because I do understand why some women continue flirting with guys that have their info. I know that some women do this in an effort to keep the man constantly sweating them. However, guys that pass their info put women in the driver's seat and force them to either make a move or be forgotten, so their constant flirting now just comes off as pointless. I get the vibe that they do this for the purpose of relieving some guilt about having your info but not acting on it. I know that it is easier to forget about someone when they are not around as oppose to when they are around, however, I would like th...

When you become overtaken by the ISM, it’s as though your senses become heightened, and your awareness becomes laser sharp. Your words begin flowing smoother than ever before. Thoughts for your next words come to you unexpectedly and immediately. The aura that you give off quickly reaches its max potential. People around you take notice as though something magical is happening. Once the ISM takes hold of you, it’s as though you’re on a different plain where only you and those within your crosshairs exist. You feel as though God is working through you and releasing all of your untapped potential at once. However, once this wears off, you’ll only briefly be able to recount what has just transpired. Furthermore, this feeling isn’t a feeling to indulge in or aspire for too long anyway—since it will leave you spiritually drained. (If you enjoyed this post, then please consider   subscribing   to stay up-to-date with my latest postings and sharings. Also, please share a...

(I took a lot of liberties in fine-tuning this post because the original poster speaks English as a second language, so he had several grammatical issues. However, I kept the core post.  -Derrick Mills ) “I’ll try," “I am about to do something new,” “I do my best”, and “I work really hard” are statements that can all be summed up in the same category. They have in common that they leave the door open, like a path for refuge, in case you are not successful in pursuing your goals. To try something you only need some motivation, and such is not very “expensive”. To be successful on the other hand--you need much more. You need an inner strength that comes from your true self--from the core of your being that cannot be acquired very easily, or even be bought somewhere. Motivation is overestimated–perseverance is what counts In general, motivation as a decisive factor for success is exaggerated. In particular, in the realm of self-help, there is much talk about it--probably be...

There is a lot of power within names. As a matter of fact, names actually have meanings behind them. My true first name actually means wisdom which is interesting because the thing I value most in this world is wisdom because through wisdom derives all things. Now to address this post, I actually once had an experience where I was overpowered by the power I injected into a name. The name was Jazmine (I changed the name for this post). The reason I imparted it so much power within this name is because while I was in Colorado there was this woman that I was attracted to whose name was Jasmine (I changed the name for this post). I conversed with this Jasmine and could tell she was filling me, but I could not pull her because she was already within a relationship. The reason there was so much energy placed on her name is because we worked together, and when you work with someone that only creates even more sexual energy amongst you because you are within close proximity of one anoth...

Today’s post stems from a trend that I have noticed amongst women that have made a lot of wrong decisions within their lives; these women develop a tendency to become very un-trusting, at least towards men anyway. Now, the purpose of these women becoming very un-trusting is so they will not be tricked or misled, however, unbeknownst to these women, what they fail to realize is by being so untrusting, they stunt their growth. It is okay to be discerning when interacting with people because this prevents a person from being tricked or misled. However, there is a difference between being discerning and being untrusting. Using discernment means looking at the complete picture of what a person is telling you or showing you in order to get a full vision of the individual’s character. Being un-trusting means simply refusing to believe a person despite what they have shown you or told you. Mistrust is a huge turnoff. Eventually, the person will begin to realize that regardless of what he/s...

Your subconscious mind can tell a story about you that you didn't mean to tell. The lie people want you to believe is the Black man is in a childish state. He can't control his emotions, so he's somewhat feminine; he can't "get it together". Don't believe the bullshit; in reality, the Black man is considered an authority figure and a very powerful man. Before I continue, you must eliminate dusty dudes, sissies, and "I want a White daddy" type of dudes. Growing up as a kid, you have been bombarded with images and sounds of Black men being very powerful and authoritative. Watching TV, kids of all races are bombarded with Black men as the superstars in sports, the coolest motherfucker in music, and the dude with the strong voice in movies and commercials. James Earl Jones played two powerful kings, King Jaffe Joffer in Coming to America and Mufasa in The Lion King. Another thing that people don't pick up on is the Image of God. Who is know...

As you're embarking on your macking journey, there are a few things you would do well to always keep foremost in your mind. One is that things are not always what they appear to be on the surface. As macks and players, you have to develop the habit and the skill of looking beyond the appearance of things. For example, you see a girl up in the club; she's dressed in something skin tight, hoochified, and extremely revealing. On the surface, the average guy will think she's easy pussy; after all, she's a walking advertisement for sex, but you're not supposed to think like the average guy. You're on a journey towards kingship and that takes a different way of seeing things. This is where those game eyes come in handy. Game eyes are like X-ray vision. They can see around corners, behind walls, and even into the hearts and minds of people. It’s a god-like power that enables you to see what others can't, and it gives you an instant advantage over the uninitia...

Alright, I am going to share a few stories with you and even get somewhat biblical. I am going to talk about the law of reciprocity, i.e. you reap what you sow. I am going to share three different stories with you, each involving karma. All of the stories will involve different women from my school. Now then, the first story involves a woman that happened to be partnered with me in a group. Me and this woman did not get along and argued constantly. Eventually, this woman had an issue and required assistance from someone. She reached out to me because I tend to be very knowledgeable about things. I debated with myself about helping her before deciding to help her. The real reason why I decided to help her was because I thought it could prevent bigger future issues. Now then, right after that class, her life hit a hardship and she had to drop. For my second story I am going to talk about a situation involving a woman that I would say subscribes to the whole “strong black woman, SBW”...