High-Value Men Assess Yourselves
For the longest, I’ve heard many guys complain about women passing them over in their younger days for older established guys, athletes, or bad boys. This propels many men to enhance themselves. However, what contradicts logic is that once these guys become set, whether than dating women that’re their peers, they choose to date younger women with nothing going for themselves other than their looks. Hence, these guys become the men they used to complain about taking the top-notch women in their demographic when the guys were younger. This perpetuates an endless cycle of scorned men dating. Since these guys dislike women who passed them over when they had nothing and envy the chosen guys, it behooves them to break the cycle of bottom-feeding. Therefore, it behooves these men to now date their peers.
Of course,
the argument that these lames make is that women in their 30s and up are
quickly approaching the wall—if they haven’t already hit it. Just like when I
did this with women, I’m going to do it with men; you’re going to have to lower
your standards for looks. Indeed, older women don’t look as good as younger
women. However, you have to evaluate what you’re looking for. Do you want an
arm-candy or a helpmate?
If you want
the finest sex doll, then go for the youngest woman that fits your criteria;
finance them and fulfill your role as their sugar-daddy. Moreover, if you
choose this route, then ensure you play this role correctly as well. In other
words, control your sugar-baby using your money—since that’s the dynamic of the
relationship.
If you
expect your woman to be a helpmate, you have to drop your standards some
regarding her looks. Instead of dating 9s and 10s, you may find yourself dating
7s and 8s. Regarding top-notch women in their 30s and up, it’s becoming
increasingly simple to find more of them that don’t have children. This is because fewer women are having children
because fewer men are creating children. Therefore, one doesn’t have to walk
into a ready-made family to date an older woman.
Now, older
women do have more baggage since it’s one’s experiences accumulated over time.
However, once again, one has to access one’s motivations. Are your goals to
have a luscious arm-candy or a helpmate? I’ve elaborated on the former. For the
latter, she’ll have baggage that she’s dealt with. It should go without saying
that she can’t bring her baggage to you.
I’m pointing
out these things because the most important aspect of a helpmate is the
tangible benefits. I’ve listened to videos by different “dating gurus,”
“relationship experts,” and “red pill guys” that’ve talked about what
“high-value men” value in dating. The one thing they all agree on is that men
don’t value a woman’s money. This is truly laughable. 😆 Most of these guys have
gone through divorces and lost substantial wealth and had to rebuild. They may
not be bitter about it. However, are we saying that it’s a sign of being a man
to risk your assets—if a relationship fails? Would you take advice from someone
that tells you that? When did taking stupid risks become a manhood test? So, of
course, her money matters.
Furthermore,
she can’t just have money for herself. It has to contribute to the
relationship. If her money is her money, and your (singular) money is your
(plural) money, how is she an asset? Furthermore, if this is the case, it
should be okay for a prince to marry a pauper. After all, if the marriage
fails, him losing his money should be okay. Thus, guys should quit concerning
themselves about losing their assets if a relationship fails.
I’ll tell
you now, even without me having the money to label myself a high-value man, I
know that high-value men value money. If you’ve read my posts, you know that I
work in a financial field. Thus, if you hear a “high-value man” saying
financially illiterate things, know that you’re talking to a high-value trick.
For various
reasons, a woman’s money matters. Given this economy, supporting a comfortable
lifestyle for two on one income is extremely taxing. Why do you believe that close to half of the United States’ working population—until recently—consisted of
women. Furthermore, even while being in serious relationships, they continue
working. If her money weren’t necessary, then many wouldn’t continue working
while in a relationship.
Furthermore,
Black men have no right to spout such nonsense since Black women have always
worked and contributed financially. Other groups can say differently. However,
that doesn’t apply to the Black community. This is one of our nuances.
Another
nuance is that Black men, collectively, are the most receptive to listening to
their partners. This was the case even before we became a matriarchy. This is a
major reason why women that date interracially on a serious level, not on some
fetish stuff, like to date Black men. In other communities, the woman’s input
is far more limited. Thus, they become accustomed to taking orders. Black men
traditionally seek their mates’ input. This is an aspect of leadership.
Now, I want
to circle back around to dating older women. It may seem like I’m promoting
dating mature women. However, I’m promoting dating your peers. You have similar
interests and live a similar lifestyle. Thus, the most important component in
choosing a mate is present. Never date someone with nothing to lose. This is
why guys get fleeced. A woman with nothing on the line can extort you without
regarding her reputation because it’s inconsequential to the benefits she
derives from squeezing you. Many up-and-coming “high-value men” seem to be
throwing this rule by the wayside. They need to see real high-value men or go
somewhere to soak up some game. Players, Macks, Ballers, and Shot-callers all
knew this. Moreover, this rule still stands true. You mess with women that’re
your peers for this very reason. She has things to lose—in case things go
south. Thus, she’s more apt to opt for a clean break than to try to fleece you.
Furthermore, her assets are equivalent to yours, so it’s harder for her to come
up off you anyway because she has her own.
Now, you
reading this may be thinking that my post contradicts a woman’s hypergamous
nature, and you’re right—to a degree. Hypergamy dictates that she goes for the
highest caliber guy possible that she can obtain. However, hypergamy doesn’t
stop with just money. His personality and traits are a part of this.
Now, The United States has created a culture of unfiltered hypergamous women with
unlimited desires reaching beyond their abilities. However, if you’re a
top-notch guy, then you’re the needle in the haystack. Thus, naturally, your
circle includes those at your level. So, these typical issues don’t apply to
you. Moreover, if they do, change your environment. You can do so. This is what
it means to be a high-value man. You don’t adhere to typical restrictions. This
is something else that the aforementioned men never suggest. They attempt to
give high-value men advice while keeping them in average-man guidelines. Thus,
up-and-coming high-value men, find established high-value men to lace you, or
some other credible sources. This blog is a good starting place.
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